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To Redeem The Past: Glimpses of the Great War Based on the Letters of Eric Standring

To Redeem the Past:

(Glimpses of the Great War Based on the Letters of Eric Standring

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Hubert Eric Standring
Hubert Eric Standring

Written and Edited by Sue Guest

Dedicated to the late Gladys Hull,

Loved Gran to her Grandsons.

She helped to keep Eric’s memory alive.

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Eric Standring Aged 2 Years
Eric Standring-Aged 2 Years
Rev James and Millie Standring Not Long After Their Marriage
Rev James and Millie Standring Not Long After Their Marriage
Rev James in front of his Moa bone collection
Rev James in front of his Moa bone collection

 

Introduction

Every year Gladys Hull (nee Standring) put another ANZAC poppy on the photograph of her brother, Lieutenant Eric Standring who died on active service in France in 1917. The photograph was mounted under glass in a brown oak frame, and there was just enough gap between glass and frame for the stems of the poppies to fit.  By the 1950’s there were nearly 30 of them, and the older ones were becoming faded and fragile, but she never removed any.

She kept a number of the letters and cards he wrote, filed in brown envelopes with the year marked on them. These provide a glimpse of Eric’s war as he reported it to his family.

Early Life

Hubert Eric Standring (always known as Eric) was born on 22 November 1894 in Invercargill. His father, the Rev. James Standring, was a minister in the Baptist church. Eric was the fourth of five sons – though his next oldest brother died, aged two, less than five months before Eric was born. There was one daughter, Gladys who was born two years after Eric.

James Standring was from Bury in Lancashire, England. He attended the East London Missionary Training Institute and came to New Zealand on the “Waipa” in 1882. In New Zealand he met Amelia Alice Stringer (known as Millie). She had been born in Staines in Middlesex, England and had arrived in New Zealand on the “Northumberland” in 1880.

Shortly after Eric was born his father transferred to the Presbyterian Church and in 1895 was called to be Minister of the Waiareka parish near Oamaru in North Otago. It was here that Eric spent his boyhood. The Standring children attended Teaneraki School (later called Enfield School).

Rev James clearly led a busy life. He was strongly involved in the community, church politics and was a great supporter of the temperance movement.

Eric got his secondary schooling at Waitaki Boys High School in Oamaru. He was successful at school and came 70th in New Zealand in the Junior Civil Service exam. In March 1912 he left for Wellington to take up a Civil Engineering cadetship with Public Works Department of the New Zealand Government.

Joining up

New Zealand received news of the outbreak of the war on 5 August, 1914. Three days later the Government began countrywide recruiting of volunteers for the main body of the New Zealand Expeditionary Force (NZEF). Eric Standring signed up on 29 August. He was not yet 20, the minimum age for enlistment and his army records show he added a year to his birth date. He was in good health, quite tall at 5 foot 11 inches with dark hair and brown eyes.

Eric joined the 12th Otago Mounted Rifles (OMR) and went into Camp at Tahuna in Dunedin. Most of those who joined the regiment had some experience as a soldier or a territorial; Eric did not though he must have been used to riding horses from his boyhood in the country.

As the OMR was a mounted regiment, troopers were required to bring a horse and a saddle although they sold their horse to the Government and were allocated one.

Eric wrote to his parents about life in the OMR:

Saturday night

Dear Dad and Mother

I am writing now in reply to your letters.  I am very glad to get them I can tell you.  I am glad you all got home safely after coming down.  I felt very down-hearted after you all got away.  Things here are pointing to a move at last.  In the parade for inspection this morning, the Honorable James Allen said we would certainly go within a week from today.  I am going for sure unless sickness or accident intervenes.

My regimental number, as far as I know is 9/481.  We have been working very hard everyday at Mounted parades, riding tests etc.  I have got a jolly good horse but it is very hard in the mouth and is a terror to bolt, but I have got an enormous curb bit and can hold him in now, but he got away with me twice and ran into a rock yesterday and cut his leg but it is healing up nicely today.  We are going to the front and not to any other place, except England first so I will be the second of the family to see the old country. 

There is a hideous row in this tent just now and it takes ones thoughts off letter writing.  All this afternoon we went miles over cross country.  It came on to rain about 2:00 pm and we had a picnic riding home down some very steep grassy hills which were as slippery as glass. We got home without accident though.  Well they have been a good few accidents lately as we have to do more on the horses and they get very excited and restless.  This is one day’s work.

Get out 6.00 am

Stables at 6.15 Roll call before. Water and groom horses till 6.45. Mess orderlies go to the galley for the breakfast, which is back about 8.00. Have breakfast and wash up.

8.45 Have all gear on and cleaned up

8.55 Saddle up

9.00 Parade on parade ground mounted and go to the beach or country until 12 noon

12.00 noon till 12.45 groom, water and feed horses.

1.00 Go for day’s rations for tent and at 2.00 Parade mounted till 5.00pm. Stables again till 5.45 and then pickets, guards etc. are detailed off and leave granted and tea is got, which is generally a good feed.

If you are not on picket, which you are not nearly every alternate night out of you can go to bed to 9:00 pm and then turn out to stables and give your horse another feed and after that go to bed for the night and you generally sleep very soundly after that.  If you are on horse picket you go up and down the horse lines catching horses that break loose and generally looking after them. Lights out at 10.00pm. 

I am very well and healthy except for a bit of a cold which everyone has got here and am feeling a lot better than when I was working at the glass trade.

I ran into a Bill Battersby at the camp today and had a yarn with him.  He looks very altered and aged and wizened up.  I will write again before I go and say goodbye

Now with much love

Your son

Eric

C squadron No 2 troop
12th Otago Mounted Rifle Regiment
Tahuna Park
Dunedin

(Please continue with this article, next post, The Letters of Eric Standring).

From February 8, 2000

Tyler & Family’s Happenings – Feb 8, 2000

 

Mommy and Daddy have been in the longest search for a new home for our newest family member.   Our search has been bittersweet along the way.   Currently we are staying with Jim’s mother, Peggy and her husband Wayne until a suitable home for us is found.

Tyler on the other hand is growing like a weed.   At his last check-up (Jan. 3) He was 23 in. and 18 lbs. 13 oz.   He is eating solids now, mostly peas, sweet potatoes, squash, and occasional bananas.   His next Dr. appointment is March 3.

We suspect the process of teething is beginning.   He is creeping—- Backwards and in circles (like his Daddy I’m told)—- he can almost roll over, if he got the bottom arm out of the way and he can sit UNASSISTED for a whole 3 minutes!!! As you can well see Mommy and Daddy are very excited and exhausted as taking care of a 5 mo. old, work and house hunting takes a lot out of anyone.

Take care,
Love, Hugs, n Sloppy Tyler kisses,
Lillian, Jim, and Tyler Turner

  – Feb 8, 2000

When I got home from work this evening, I found out Tyler FINALLY rolled over by himself. :))))))))))

Anne Kinser – Feb 9, 2000

Lillian,
I think its wonderful news &the part about tyler is soo cute. I would love to baby-sit for you at any time (not during school hours of course:))

annie

Mom Dexter – Feb 11, 2000

Welcome to the world of parenthood.   Tag!   You are it.   Love Nanna

Edward H. Dexter, Junior

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Edward Harvey Dexter, Jr. was born on November 13, 1909, the first child born to Edward H. Dexter Sr. and Josephine Johanna Swan in Dayton, Montgomery County, Ohio.  He and his wife, Majorie Elizabeth (nee Huston) were married on February 22, 1931 in Dayton, Montgomery County, Ohio.

Marriage License of Ed and Marj Dexter
Marriage License of Ed and Marj Dexter

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In May of 1931, Edward and Marjorie had a son they named Richard Allen.  Richard did not live long and was buried on May 8, 1931 within the same interment ground as his aunt, Gladys (Houston) Marts.

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In June of 1933, Ronald Harvey Dexter was born

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In Aug of 1937, Carol Ann Dexter was born.

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Ed often went to see his son’s track events and football games and when it was time, he was able to send his daughter to nursing school.

As kids, I didn’t really notice how little my dad’s parents were involved in our lives.  We visited them at Christmas and Easter, and that was it. The only other times were when they visited our home for a party my parents would hold, though that was rare.  By the time I came along, my grandfather was already having issues with his eyesight and rarely drove after dark.

Ed held a variety of jobs over his lifetime, from working at a local drive-in theater, where he was once pistol-whipped by a thief to NCR, from where he retired when he was in his 60’s.

He had developed diabetes and it was controlled by a very strict diet, which Marj tended to daily.  He had a number of episodes, a few which put him in hospital due to the diabetes, and he also had issues with his heart.  He had a pacemaker put in and it kept him going for many years.

Ed finally developed cancer, which took his life in February of 1991.  He had a quiet life led by a very quiet man.

Things I remember about Ed: his eternal cigars, the garden in the backyard of their home on Watervliet; dancing with him at my first wedding and always worrying about him because he seemed so sad and beaten.